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What are some ways to ensure a micro-wedding still feels special?

Infuse elements of a larger, more traditional celebration to make your micro-wedding feel more like the special occasion that it is.

First, invest in an amazing photographer and videographer to capture the day and preserve your memories.

An intimate event isn’t any less worthy of beautiful documentation. Involve your guests in the big day by welcoming each of them with a handwritten note or snapping a photo with each guest and mailing a print to them afterward.

Remember that small can still be stylish, so don’t forgo details like quality florals, trendy tablescapes and a gorgeous cake that will make the event memorable. Include wedding traditions like toasts, a first dance or a cake-cutting to remind you of where you are and what you’re celebrating.

Our guest list is very small. How do I avoid hurting the feelings of those who are not invited?

Naturally, a small guest list may lead to some hurt feelings on the part of friends and family who don’t make the cut.

Manage expectations by clearly communicating your desire for an intimate celebration, and prioritize your closest relationships. Be consistent when making decisions about who is invited and who isn’t, applying the same “rules” to both parties.

Find alternative ways to make them feel included, such as livestreaming the ceremony or sharing photos afterward. While offending some loved ones may be unavoidable, remember that this day is about you. You don’t have to explain your choices to anyone.

Commit to your guest-list decisions, and don’t waver.

Victoria Deardorff is the creator and CEO of Pittsburgh’s wedding blog, Burgh Brides.